Archive for June, 2011
Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Expectations have so much to do with our life experience, wouldn’t you agree? If you expect that your husband will be home in time for dinner but things run long at the office, you are likely disappointed that he is late getting home. If you know that your child struggles with her swimming strokes but then she gets 2nd place in the swim meet you feel like throwing a party because you didn’t expect that.
Most of you have expectations of me … even if you haven’t thought of it that way. I’m totally generalizing here and I know it’s not exactly like this for every single one of you because you’re each very unique. That said, I think it’s safe to say that most of you expect that I will have 4-5 blog posts each week. You expect that I will post several ideas, finds, and anecdotes on facebook + twitter every weekday. You expect that I’m pretty quiet on the weekends. You expect that I will share a { POTD Idea } every weekday as well. Some of you expect that if you post a question on facebook or twitter or in the comments of a blog post that there’s a pretty good chance I will answer your question.
You’ve developed these expectations because … it’s pretty accurate. That’s all pretty much how I’ve been rolling.
Now it is Summer. Summer is unique because the kiddos are not in school, we travel more, and while I still maintain routines as best as I can in the Summer, there is a considerable amount of inconsistency. This is what you can expect from me this Summer:
Inconsistent blogging. I will continue sharing thoughtful ideas, projects, updates, and inspiration on my blog. Some weeks I may have just 1-2 posts. Some weeks there may be 4-5. Overall, there will probably be a little less blogging than you’re used to.
Inconsistency with facebook + twitter. Same thing. Some days I’ll be on fire. Maybe 6-8 updates. And some days you’ll be lucky to see me post a { POTD Idea }.
Product updates. I have always believed that being upfront, honest, and transparent with my customers is important. That’s why I give more product updates than most companies would dare consider. You want to know stuff. So I’m going to share. And nothing is changing about that. As soon as I have more information about what’s coming and when it’s coming, I’ll share as much information and as many sneak peeks as I can.
Your general/random questions. I receive more questions on facebook + twitter + here on my blog + via email than I can keep up with. Let’s put it this way: The more time I take to answer questions, the less time I am working on product design for items that are coming out this year. Which means the process will be delayed and ultimately, you’ll be frustrated if products aren’t being released when you’re expecting that they’ll be released. So … I want to answer your questions. I really do. I love to help. But I have to stay focused, especially for the next little while, on some hard-core design work. Trust me, this will benefit you.
Your customer service questions. Christy is our Customer Service champion and is wonderful with questions regarding your orders. She does a great job keeping up with customerservice@beckyhiggins.com emails. If you don’t hear back within an hour or a day, please know that she too has Summer Inconsistency. Your questions are important and it’s a priority to help our customers as quickly and thoroughly as possible. Please know that we will do our very best.
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On a final note for today, I know I might sound like a broken record when I say this (most recently in my 1,000th blog post video) but … thank you. I am grateful you are here. I am grateful for your trust. I am grateful for your enthusiasm about my work, my blog, and my products. You are why I do what I do.
Happy Summer! And Happy Winter to those of you south of the equator. ; )
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Tuesday, June 14th, 2011
Every day is loaded with opportunity. You know the saying — Life is what you make of it. Yeah, I completely agree with that. Completely. And you know that I whole-heartedly believe that when we document bits and pieces of our life, we are more aware of how richly blessed we really are. Today I’m sharing few recent opportunities I’ve had in the past few days — documented with pictures + words.
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{ Opportunity: Scout Camp }

On Friday I spent the day with a bunch of 8- and 9-year-old boys at Cub Scout Camp. I had a million other things to do. It was hot. And boys are loud. But I love my son. And I value opportunities to be with him. And one day he won’t care so much to have his uncool mom around. So I’m soaking it in while I can.
Photo taken with my iPhone 4 and edited with the Camera+ app. This camp site was at the base of a desert mountain and just beautiful.
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{ Opportunity: Finding Inspiration }

One of the { POTD Ideas } I shared on facebook & twitter last week was THIS from Rebecca Cooper’s blog. I love taking pictures at ground level but I can’t remember the last time I set the camera down, put it on timer, and put myself in the shot. Rebecca inspired me to capture something that is very everyday in my life: Doing my work in the kitchen and Crew close-by, doing his “work”. I passed the inspiration on to my facebook & twitter readers. And I took the opportunity to actually act on an inspiring idea. And now I’m so happy I have this picture.
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{ Opportunity: Memory Lane }

David and I had the (very spontaneous) opportunity to stop by and see our first two little apartments (one block apart from each other) when we were newlyweds 15 years ago. A flood of memories rushed through our minds all at once and it was so much fun, super quick, and totally worth it.
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{ Opportunity: Family Bonding }

We created an opportunity to visit with some family this weekend that we don’t get to see very often. During church one of our nephews passed us these notes. Pick me up out of a puddle on the floor. Because honestly? I can’t imagine a sweeter compliment than to be called nice.
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{ Opportunity: Reconnecting with my Childhood BFF }

I’m holding back from writing and writing and writing all I want to share about Lydia. I could write a book about our adventures together and what I admire about her and how she has been — and still is — a great strength to me. But this is what I will say: The friends we choose? We can’t take that lightly for ourselves or for our children. If my children have only one close friend in their childhood, it will be enough if that friend is what Lydia was to me. Really.
I had several friends growing up that were dear to me and many fond memories with those friends. Lydia was/is everything a best friend should be — completely trustworthy, uplifting, honest, encouraging, and a good example. She was always a sister to me. We’ve remained dear friends all these years and can go a couple years without much more than a couple emails and easily pick up right where we left off.
I said I would hold back, didn’t I?
On Sunday night, Lydia and her husband and darling family were passing through town and so we had the very pleasant surprise of having them here with us for not even 33 hours. I stopped everything I had going on. Rearranged plans. Blew off my work. The 4 of us went to bed at 4:00 am the past two nights — stayed up talking and talking and talking. The opportunity was golden and treasured and refreshing and we are better for that time spent reconnecting with dear friends.
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Thursday, June 9th, 2011
To wrap up this week’s series of photos from our recent trip back east, I wanted to share a few last snapshots. Our visits to Washington D.C. and Amish Country were quick. The majority of our time was spent with family. They are why we traveled there.
Before we dive into these photos, I wanted to add something: My purpose in sharing pictures from our trip is not about our trip. My intention is to share with you how I document, with hopes that you will find even a tiny bit of inspiration in documenting your own. As you know, I focus a lot on documenting the everyday. This week’s focus on my blog happen to come from a vacation perspective. But you’ll notice in today’s photos that while we were on vacation, these are all very much “everyday” type of photos.
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Watching my nephews play soccer has been on my bucket list for a while and I’m thrilled that we finally got to see them in action. I ended up taking a LOT of pictures for them. I like to pictures and that’s great. But I really love to take pictures FOR people. I guess you could say it’s part of my “love language”. It is a gift that I can share with others. And the cutest thing? They actually really enjoyed that I was taking pictures and told me so. They’re teenage boys! What a score in my validation book.



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Food, food, food. And yes, probably too much of it. It was so fun to share meals with family in their homes.

Apparently my Mom’s favorite new thing to make is whoopie pies. It’s a new-to-me food group. And watch out — the woman knows how to mass-produce treats.

Of course she made plenty of her classic chocolate chip cookies. I may or may not have eaten 57 of them.

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We went on a really nice, long walk through a new community in our little town. The kids went on a tractor ride through my parents’ property. We swam. We had slumber parties. We played. We relaxed.

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The kids had serious cousin bonding time. And bonding with grandparents. It was a wonderful time of reconnection. Grandma and Claire especially because Claire has such a fascination for all the knick-knacky things that my mom has everywhere.

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The kids are particularly fond of Grandma’s Amish clock that sings every hour. Okay, so she has like SIX singing clocks. Hilarious. I love how Claire was trying to pick Crew up to see the moving parts on the clock.

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Isn’t she so beautiful? This is my great Aunt Eva and I love her so much. David and I haven’t had living grandparents for quite a number of years but Aunt Eva is like a grandma to me and I treasure the time we had to catch up. She is 93 years of age and has the softest hands on the planet.

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We stopped by my brother’s architectural/engineering firm. With my camera around my neck, I took a load of pictures around his office. Again, for the love of sharing pictures.

We also got to see one of his projects which is underway and looking awesome. He oozes talent.

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My other brother in Maryland is an optometrist and the BEST at that. I know I’m biased but seriously — he’s one of the nicest guys you’ll ever meet and really passionate about what he does. Plus, he let our kids take a peek through the equipment. (Photo taken on my iPhone with poor lighting but hey — that’s alright.)

{ NOTE } If it’s been a while since you took your camera to work or photographed a loved one at work, you can find some inspiration here and here.
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Remember that big brush pile I showed you in Monday’s post? Yeah, that’s gone now. As tradition has it, we had a bonfire in my parents’ backyard.

As you can tell, we are so grateful we were able to go on this family trip. I am so grateful for family connections. Not so much for humidity, but for the time we were able to spend with some of the people we love the absolute most. And I’m grateful for photography that allows me to capture these memories. And I’m grateful for Project Life because it’s so not overwhelming adding a few favorites to our family’s yearbook, which I’ll be doing this weekend. ; )
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Wednesday, June 8th, 2011
No words today. Just a peek at Pennsylvania Dutch Country, according to my camera lens.












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Tuesday, June 7th, 2011
We visited Washington D.C. a week ago today. Spent a full day there. On a sweltering hot & humid day. I remember humidity. I lived in this climate for 17 years + 4 more when we lived in Cleveland. It’s not hard to forget. But man — coming from the desert into that wet air on a nearly 100-degree day? Super awesome.
Not.
After we got through the initial shock (in other words, the whining) and found some air-conditioning, it really was a great day. We caught the morning train right in Brunswick. (Did I ever tell you that my hometown high school mascot is the Brunswick Railroaders?) Once we were in the city, the Metro got us to the Mall and then it was on foot from there.



We were in really, really good company. Lots of people were there to see the Lincoln Memorial. Hot + humid … and crowded? Plus whining kiddos? We were off to an … entertaining start.


This is part of the beautiful WWII memorial.
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Of course the Washington Monument is beautiful, particularly as it is surrounded by U.S. flags. But this also became our first landmark of air-conditioning! So now we love it even more.
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These views are from the top of the Washington Monument.



Inside the Smithsonian – National Museum of Natural History.
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Monday, June 6th, 2011
We live in the desert. The desert is our home. I have grown to love the desert with its unique beauty, contrasted landscape, practically no natural disasters (unless you consider extreme heat to be a disaster), and the Winter weather is right up our ally.
But I grew up in Maryland. All that farmland, rolling hills, the Appalacian mountains … that’s my home too. Visiting the place that has my roots in its soil is always therapeutic and refreshing. And then I’m always ready to come back to our home in Arizona.
Our little family just spent a week back east. Some of you know my parents just spent two years serving a mission in Finland. They’re back home now. So we went to spend time with them and our other family there (I have a couple brothers and their families in Maryland also).
I’m very much in travel-recovery mode this week. My inboxes are overflowing, not to mention the laundry and my to-do list. But first things first. My pictures are uploaded and organized. Of course. Here’s a little look at beautiful Maryland, according to my camera lens.
You’ll notice a theme: Green, green, green.






All of the above photographs are from around my parents’ property. The place where I grew up. The clovers, the ivy, the honeysuckles … so very much a part of my childhood. That brush pile? You’ll see that again later this week when I share pictures of the bonfire.

Looking into the backyard where nieces and nephews played for hours (at my brother’s home).

The motion in this shot is evidence of snapping this picture from the car as we drove into Brunswick — my hometown. Every time we drive through this area my nose is practically glued to the window. I never seem to tire of the sites. It is simply beautiful.
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As I get back into the routine of everyday life this week, I’ll be sharing more pictures from our trip back east. Expect a lot of visual, and very few words. Stay tuned for pictures from Washington D.C., Amish Country, and more. I hope you’re off to a really great start this week. If you watch and listen carefully, you’ll notice a lot of blessings in store for you.
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Thursday, June 2nd, 2011
Wanted to share this sweet email from a reader — Jan.
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Becky,
I wanted to share a little tale today about toilet paper, or TP for short. I just finished watching your appearance on the Motherhood Matters show the day before and loved the comments about blessings and offerings we share throughout our day to our children. I also thought about our children’s offerings of love to us and I thought I would share a tale about a simple stack of TP and the offering amongst it from my 5-year-old son Oliver.

I was busy putting things away from Costco and trying to get dinner started when I heard Oliver call me from the bathroom. It is his job to put away the TP. As I entered the bathroom I could see that he had made one of his famous TP towers that he likes to do before he puts it away. I told him how awesome it was, and it was then that I noticed my little grapevine heart that I have in the bathroom nestled amongst the TP tower.
I kind of chuckled at this and wondered why he would put that there. I said, “Ollie, what’s with the heart buddy?” He smiled the biggest smile Becky and said, “Mommy, its my heart of love tower for you.”
A simple TP tower was his testament of love for me. I think there is nothing more “everyday” than TP, but to have it built into a castle of love by a 5 year old little man, illuminates that love is all around us everyday, even in the bathroom. Thank you for reminding me of this.
Warm regards from my TP tower.
Jan Davis
British Columbia, Canada
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