reader writes: emily, age 16

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Words can not express how stoked I am to hear from teens who love documenting life. That was so me. At an early age, I loved taking pictures, writing in my journal, and documenting my life – and my family’s life. The following is an email from sweet Emily in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is 16. And completely darling.

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Dear Becky,

I grew up loving photography and scrapbooking because I saw my mom doing it constantly. However, when she introduced me to Project Life, capturing memories took on a whole new meaning for me. There are many days when I feel bad about who I am, or doubt that I am truly loved. Flipping through my PL album always reassures my doubts and reminds me that I have a purpose in life, am fine just the way I am, and am loved by many. I am a junior in highschool and recently had to write about something that I believe in for my AP English class. I choose to write about remembering, and thought I would share. Thank you so much for all that you do.
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This I Believe  |  by Emily
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I believe in cameras. My parents always went to every school event; one videotaped and the other took pictures. They constantly stressed to get the typical student and teacher picture, the awkward school play shot no one wants to see, and the chubby smiles filled with gaps. Scrapbooks filled our shelves, eagerly awaiting the curious eyes of anyone who came to visit. We plugged the video camera into our TV and laughed at the ice cream stained faces and grubby children captured on film. Mom was always there, hidden behind her precious black box.
I believe in mirror pictures. Every girl spends time capturing various poses on film in their bathroom, whether they hide the pictures or post them online for the entire world to see. Even those goofy pictures are fun to look back through and remember what you once were like. I have my fair share of awkward middle school pictures, full of braces and faces breaking out. The embarrassing school portraits you once wanted to burn don’t seem so bad when they are sitting next to your high school pictures, oozing confidence and glowing skin.
I believe in preserving your pictures. Going back through old scrapbooks, my brothers and I were transported into a past world long forgotten. My youngest brother was captivated as he saw pictures of Christopher and me growing up and was able to glimpse into what our childhood was like. He spent hours asking questions about the books and made sure mom still carried her camera everywhere with her, in hopes that one day he would have a book of his own. Cameras have become a constant in my family’s life. They’re always there, capturing the little moments just as much as the big ones.
Above all, I believe in remembering. There is immeasurable value in a simple photograph. It tells a story, gives meaning, and has multiple memories attached to it. Nothing can describe the feeling of finding an old black and white photo of long lost family, or digging out your high school yearbook and reliving the crazy hairstyles and funky trends. Pictures keep loved ones close by or preserve our memories of them. Pictures give a history. They help us to remember the bad and learn from our mistakes; they show us the good and keep us strong enough to carry on. I believe in memories.

40 Responses to “reader writes: emily, age 16”

  1. Kim H. says:

    that is awesome!

  2. Cheryl says:

    What a special young lady you are Emily! Hope you got an A on you assignment!! Thank you for sharing this with us Becky.

  3. Melinda Wilson says:

    Woohoo!!! I am so excited! Thanks!

  4. Kyla says:

    So awesome! What an amazing young woman! I can’t wait to try out Project Life myself! (I’m just waiting until the kit comes up for sale in November!)

  5. Kira =] says:

    I wish I had been that smart at 16. What a wonderful way to remind her how precious she really is!!

  6. Shelby says:

    Gosh she is wonderful! I was so crazy about taking pictures as a teenager and now that i’m in college i tend to leave my camera behind a lot. Or feel silly getting it out to take pictures at events. Time to change that! She is so right! Remembering is SO important

  7. I hope my three daughters grow into a great teen like her! :-) She’s fabulous.

  8. Laura says:

    I loved her statement that pictures keep loved ones close by! I have lost so many important people in my life including both my parents and I treasure the pictures and memories of them. Thanks for sharing. What an amazing 16 year old-wise beyond her years!

  9. Nikki says:

    Emily, you are an AMAZING young woman who has a great future ahead of you….you can tell you have a loving family too! Don’t give up on your hopes and dreams! Thank you for sharing this Becky!

  10. Mickey says:

    AWESOME!! What a beautiful and mature young woman!! Her family should be proud.

  11. Pam says:

    Becky & Emily, thank you so much for sharing! What a great reminder.

  12. Shannon C says:

    How beautifully written! Her family should be so proud!

  13. KellyO says:

    I only wish that I had as much wisdom as Emily does when I was sixteen. What a beautiful essay.

  14. Emily, you have written such beautiful words, I really hope you got an A! You are sweet, beautiful and have such a great insight into the memory keeping process, so wise for being 16.

  15. KellyMinMN says:

    It sounds like Emily has parents who are ‘doing it right’, good job Mom and Dad, you’ve got an amazing daughter!

  16. Kristin O says:

    Emily is only 16? WOW! I never had such an appreciation for anything my mom did at that age! :) I can only hope my boys grow up to “believe in” cameras and memory preservation instead of moaning and groaning when I pull it out! ha ha

  17. Sheryl Pyle says:

    I love that Emily really “gets” it. What a wonderful legacy she is making for her family as she grows up and marries and has a family. There are not lots of pictures of me when I was a child as my parents really didn’t
    have a camera and didn’t take many pics when they did. I have gone overboard but it is hard to go back to chronicle my life. Project Life is so wonderful for so many reasons. Thank you Becky.

  18. Marsha says:

    She makes me wish I had children.

  19. Becky says:

    I completely love this… I am printing it out so my 14 year old daughter who feels the same way about herself at this awkward stage in life can post this on her wall as a reminder she is not alone in her thoughs and will inspire her to love everything about her life.
    What a great inspiration you are Emily… Thank you for sharing

  20. Jennifer Christman says:

    Beautifully said. I remember my parents the same was when I was young too. Now I am the mom that carries a camera everywhere I go hoping that my kids feel the same way one day.

  21. dawn says:

    Thank you so much for sharing this today!! How awesome and sweet you are Emily to know all this at a young age. How loving and caring your parents were to start you on this journey. I can’t tell you how many people I share my love of PL just don’t get it. It makes my day to come here and see others that really do get it. You are beautiful on the inside and outside, keep these memories with you and carry them into your adulthood.

    Good for you also picking this as your topic in English, hopefully this will get the other kids involved too. Hugs and prayers for you Emily and your family.

    Thank you Becky for all you do and those you touch in this world by this simple album keeping. !!

  22. Emily – what an amazing woman you are. You are beautiful inside and out. Never doubt anything about yourself for a minute. You are now and will be an inspiration for many. You have definitely inspired me today. Thank you.

  23. Jill says:

    Love this!! Great job to Emily on her paper…I feel inspired to start taking more pictures…NOW! :) Thank you for sharing.

  24. Desiree says:

    SO true!!! I love that even at her age she appreciates these things. What a sweet young lady. :)

  25. Lois says:

    I’m showing this to my 12-year-old daughter, who loves to scrapbook with me. This is great!

  26. Mich says:

    Beautiful! I have an fifteen year old and this really struck a cord. You’re a gifted writer Emily!

  27. Laurie says:

    Powerful. I am in tears.

  28. SherriS. says:

    Thanks for sharing Emily’s letter to you. Our memory keeping is as important as those family dinners!

  29. Pat says:

    To Becky – thank you for sharing her paper with us!

    To Emily – Be sure to print out all these comments about how wonderful you are! We are women with lots of experiences and without ever even meeting you can tell from just one short paper that you are someone VERY special! I wish for you that you wouldn’t doubt yourself. Tape all these comments to your wall so you don’t ever have to question again! Your future may not be everything you hope it will be – but you will be great no matter what!

  30. Silvia Diaz says:

    Really teared up at Emily’s writing!!! How great!

  31. Clara says:

    Wow, Emily captured the essence of why we are all so dedicated to capturing “moments” whether it be with pictures, videos or journaling.

  32. Danielle Geraty says:

    Amazing-I’m a teacher and would have LOVED to have a student turn in this assignment!:)

  33. Lori says:

    Thanks Becky for the fun prize!!! I loved Emily’s paper and am so happy there are so many teens who are loving photography and preserving memories. My twin girls are 12 and they are on their second Project Life albums. It is so nice to give them their pictures and the rest is up to them. I love to read their journal entries and have them put their whole heart and personalities into their albums. Thank you for everything Becky!!!

  34. Sarah Wilson says:

    PROJECT LIFE QUESTION

    I am having a hard time figuring out the colors of the different designs. Are the colors more true to the photos or videos? In the videos they look a little washed out, but in the products pictures the cardstock is much more vibrant. Which one should I follow for color selection?

    Thank You

  35. Jamie says:

    Becky,
    I am Emily’s mom. Thank you so much for sharing Emily’s essay. I cannot even begin to tell you how much your doing this has meant to her. You have been such an inspiration to us both. I think you have helped us the most in remembering that the small moments in life are just as important as the big events. They deserve to be documented too. Thank you for all you do to inspire us.

    Jamie

    Emily,
    I am so proud of you! You are an amazing young woman. I am blessed to be your mom. I know that your sharing this essay will inspire others. I will treasure forever the memories that we have made through the years documenting our lives.

    I love you,
    Mom

    P.S. I can’t wait to document this big event in your life in our Project Life albums! :)

  36. Monica says:

    Wow – - if only more teens were like Emily! Reading what Jamie (Emilys Mom) wrote – it made me realize how grateful I am to have owned a camera for so long and for having been able to take pictures of my family and friends. My Mom has just passed and so my camera and the memories I have preserved has made it easier for me to celebrate not only her life but mine too!

    Jamie is young – - and has oh so much wisdom – so cool to see what an inspiration she is – - and I love to see others being an inspiration to Becky – - to know she’s a “real person” is just wonderful.

    Thanks for letting me share.

  37. Amy says:

    If my girls grow up to be like Emily I will be truly blessed (she is our babysitter and I am so grateful for her presence in my children’s lives)! She is the sweetest girl!
    Thank you for spotlighting her ! We often hear about how disrespectful and entightled teens these days are…it is wonderful that through your blog you have the power to share this lovely young woman’s sentiments with so many and bring hope and encouragement to others.

  38. Jane says:

    Emily, just wanted to say thank you for sharing! I remember 16 well and I too grew up with a camera everywhere – I am so glad!! Enjoy your teenage years and have fun!
    Cheers
    Jane

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