Do you feel like you are swimming in the stuff that your kids bring home from school?
Do you feel like you have more papers, projects, pictures, works of art, programs, awards, and memorabilia than you can manage?
Do you feel completely overwhelmed by the very idea of organizing all this stuff?
Do you have a desire to bring some order to the chaos, and ultimately have organized scrapbooks for your kids?
Me too, friends. Me. Too.
I really needed to get a grip on all the stuff for my kids so I embarked on a little journey with a big goal. I decided that having a video camera along for the ride might end up being beneficial for some of you too. That’s the goal. This is not a quick tutorial. This video is nearly 30 minutes long and you’ll feel like you’re hanging out with me in our home office as I walk you through my own process of creating order out of chaos. You’ll appreciate the fact that I’m years behind on the kids’ scrapbooks. And you’ll see first-hand what I’m doing to get to a place where I no longer feel Mom Guilt.
Join me on this quest to get organized. This video was built piece-by-piece over many weeks. If I had nothing else going on, this would all have happened in a few days. But that’s not my real life. So I fit it in a little here, a little there. Many outfits. Many hairstyles. Too many outtakes that warrant their own video … some day.
I genuinely want you to feel inspired to get organized with your kids’ stuff without being completely overwhelmed. In fact, I expect that many of you will even get organized with your own childhood and school stuff as well. (But just take one thing at a time, okay?)
As I mentioned in the video, I’m looking forward to hearing from you, too. If you have insights to share that will help us in developing product that will ultimately help you, don’t be shy. We are literally in the middle of designing school/childhood products right now and I invite you to participate in our brainstorming. Consider yourself an honorary team member of Becky Higgins LLC. So much of what we have done is a result of listening to our customers and readers. Your suggestions will be heard and considered.
August 2010. It was back to school for the kids and the start of a new project that I volunteered to take on for two classrooms — Porter’s 2nd grade class and Claire’s preschool class.
I call these Personal Yearbooks. The idea of course, is to help students document their school life, introduce the youngsters to scrapbooking and personal history, and have fun while doing it. Each month I photographed every single kid. I edited those pictures, printed those pictures, prepared the supplies, and went back in to guide the students in putting their pages together. It’s a monthly ritual.
Many of you have done the same thing.
So here we are. May 2011.The end of the school year. The books are complete. All 43 of them. Each is unique and specific to that child, filled with his or her handwriting, stories, art, and imagination.
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{ a few pages from Porter’s book }
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{ a few pages from Claire’s book }
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As I reflect on this year of doing this project month after month, I thought I’d share a few bits of advice to those (parents or teachers) who may want to do this next school year. Full details can be found here (you’ll see it there on the right side along with lots of other free downloads.)
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{ advice }
1. You don’t have to do it alone. You could alternate with another parent, month by month. Or one of your could be the photographer who also prints the pictures and the other person could be the one who prepares the supplies and goes in to scrapbook with the kids each month. My friend Keri did all the photography and prepared all the supplies but then she let the teacher actually do the pages with the kids each month. However you go about it, consider sharing the load so you don’t burn out.
2. Consider doing the bulk of preparation at the beginning. I’m talking about all of the printing, paper-cutting, and any other prep work. I often found myself doing last-minute stuff as I rushed out the door to get to the school. Always so much going on. Had I had everything already prepped and organized, I would have been a lot more relaxed about the project.
3. Involve your child. One thing I’m glad I did and would definitely recommend, is to involve your own child(ren) in the behind-the-scenes process. Porter and Claire helped me with sorting, matching pictures with folders (they know who’s who in their classes a whole lot better than I do), and things like that. They love it. It’s a family affair. And they learn to appreciate volunteer work a little more.
4. Stock up. If you have a stash of patterned papers and other paper crafting or scrapbooking supplies, set some things aside for this project if you’re considering ever doing this. Even though I don’t do much “traditional/decorative” scrapbooking anymore, I am so glad I have always hung on to some supplies. That stuff always comes in handy when it comes to projects with the kids especially.
5. Plan themes in advance. At the beginning of the school year, brainstorm with the teacher and come up with a list of themes you want to be sure to cover for the project. This will help you feel organized, as opposed to trying to think of a new idea each month. For example, here are some POTM (picture-of-the-month) themes we did this year: first day of school, my body system (a specific learning unit), gratitude, class holiday party, reading, field day, field trip, my teacher, recess, the library …
6. Don’t pose every picture. Obviously a child’s smile is priceless and we want to capture that. I also encourage you to mix it up. Take some of the pictures candidly and not always posed with the child looking & smiling at the camera. Catch them in the act of doing what it is that they do at school.
7. Details in writing. Whether the students are doing their own writing on the pages or you or the teacher are writing what the kids say (as it was with our little preschool class) … dig for a little more information. When you ask, “What’s your favorite thing about lunch time?” … follow up with “Why?” or “Tell me more.” This is where the flavor in their personality can really shine through their words.
8. Do it. Even though this year was a bit of a challenge for me personally to keep up with 2 classes worth of Personal Yearbooks, I am so glad I did. Obviously it’s always great to volunteer in the kids’ classes and be involved with their school. But also — these books very well could be the only form of memory-keeping some of these kids will have at this age.
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I learned a lot this year. I’m going to do things a little differently next year. Yes, I plan to continue the tradition. But — no more late nights cramming in last-minute preparations that look like this:
Here’s to teaching kids while they’re young, that documenting life is awesome.
Today, I am surprisingly not showing any signs of injuries from last night’s handstand fest with my kids. They were completely amused. Apparently I haven’t done handstands for my kids before? I guess I can check that off my bucket list.
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Today, the little man tried eating breakfast at the bar like a big kid. Is is possible the beloved high chair will soon see its retirement from our kitchen?
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Today, I am all prepped and ready to scrapbook with Porter’s 2nd grade class for the first time. Photos are printed, cardstock pages are printed, pattern paper strips are cut. Check. If you are interested in doing this with your child and his/her class … be sure to grab the free download page templates HERE. All the information is there too.
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Today, I am nibbling on these mint brownies for a friend’s baby shower tonight. The top layer? Melted semi-sweet chocolate chips. Divine.
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Today, Silly Bandz are scattered, organized, displayed, and worn in our home. Evidence of what the kids are into these days.
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Today, I am taking my “note-to-self” seriously (from last week). I made a quick sign to put by the doorbell. I don’t need a delivery person interrupting the precious nap time anymore. We’ll see if it works. Want one too? Check out the Free Stuff page and download it for free.
PS – I just remembered my web-designer-brother Andrew came up with a clever little no-soliciting sign a while back that you may also enjoy. Click here.
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What about you? Name one thing that you are up to today.
I will choose someone at random to win a free 3-month subscription to e-Mealz. This is something new for our family lately (based on many of your recommendations) and we really like it so far. Several of you have asked which plan we’re trying. It’s the WalMart Low Carb plan.
I’ll announce a winner on Friday and also share a code for everyone else to get a discount.
I’m sharing 10 Back-to-School photo ideas as a guest over at Creating Keepsakes. You can check it out here.
Noticing some good questions from yesterday’s post. Sending hugs to those of you who were especially respectful and kind with your remarks. It says a lot about you, and means a lot to me. I will try to address your questions over time. (It will take time.) Today, I’ll address a few of your questions regarding the website facelift.
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Q: With your new web design, I’m noticing some of the text and graphics overlapping and not looking right. What’s wrong?
A: Just hit refresh. It should clear up. However, if you’re still noticing a problem, please leave a comment and tell me which browser you’re using so we can troubleshoot.
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Q: Love the clean, organized design but it’s so white. I find it harder to read.
A: Actually, this font style, color, and size is the very same that it has always been. That didn’t change. As for the all-white look it’s precisely what I was going for. I love how clean it feels. And yet — now that the redesign is live and everyone is giving feedback, I can see that the all-white look is perhaps “too” white. I appreciate the input. I want you to have a good experience every time you visit here. And actually, I agree with you that it needs a little more splash of color. You’ll see some color re-introduced shortly. We’re still wrapping up all sorts of little details on the site as well so you may be noticing some other things pop up.
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Q: Please add categories to your Recipes section!
A: I hear ya. I’m on it. It’s been a low priority for a long time, but I’ll get those categories up soon.
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[ SEARCH ] A few of you remember some of my Q&A from the past, where I’ve answered lots of little questions. Click on the Q&A category to the right and you’ll notice I’ve added more posts to that section.
Tip: If you remember a specific topic that I’ve addressed at some point but can’t remember where to find it, take advantage of the SEARCH feature on my blog. This will save you a lot of time. It will pull up blog posts that have that topic or keyword (notice the tags).
For example, you’re wondering what makeup I wear? Search for “makeup”. (I prefer Mac.) You remember I mentioned my favorite new magazine somewhere but you can’t remember the name of it. Search for “magazine”. (It’s Seeing the Everyday) You want a little inspiration for making a baby announcement. Search for “baby announcement”. Feeling like you want to try spray-painting or creating a floral arrangement? You know what you’re looking for. Just plug it in the Search field. : )
I wanted to re-cap this whole school scrapbook project and give you an overview of the concept and the layouts.
- This is not a product I sell. I’ve just been sharing the files all school year, one month at a time, here on my blog. If you want to obtain those files for future use, do a search for school layout and you should be able to find them. (See the right side of my blog for the search field.)
- It’s a super-duper simple format that is easy for young children to do. I wanted their creativity to shine in the art and handwriting, not the scrapbooking supplies or techniques.
- Porter’s teacher and I came up with a theme for each month and that’s how I determined which pictures I would take. They were: first day of school, centers, library, recess, lunch, computer lab, classroom party, field day, class play, and friends.
- Doing this project with the kids gave me an opportunity to be in Porter’s classroom at least twice a month. Once to take the pictures and once to scrapbook with them. At this age, he still thinks it’s cool when mom comes into the classroom. I’m totally taking advantage of this sweet attitude before it changes. : )
- I prepped everything ahead of time. When I went in to scrapbook with the kids I gave each child their pictures and page elements all ready in their individual baggies.
- The end result is a scrapbook that shows the child’s growth in a school year. It’s a wonderful little keepsake that will showcase their art, their improving writing skills, and of course pictures and memories from the school year.
For those of you who have been sticking with it and doing monthly layouts with school children, GOOD FOR YOU. I hope you haven’t completely relied on my file-sharing to create you books with the kids since I haven’t been able to make it my no. 1 priority to post those ahead of each month. In any case, here are the April layout and May layout files … in case it helps anyone.
The theme for April was their little play they put on.
The theme for May was friendship. It’s hard to believe another school year is over.
And for the last page of the book, we did a simple list of what the classroom rules were for the the school year and a silly picture of the whole class.
When I did these pages with the kids last week, I emphasized the significance of that last page, which is this: When we follow rules and help others and show courtesy and choose the right in general, that’s how we can have the best time and the greatest happiness.
In school and in life.
Amen. : )
The files are PDFs. I’m having issues with the Word and Pages documents so if you want to adapt these last few pages for your own project, just work from one of the previous month’s files.
Here’s the March layout I did for the kiddos in Porter’s class. We’ll be doing April soon too and I’ll try to share those page templates as soon as we do the pages. March was FIELD DAY and for sure the most fun I’ve had photographing the first graders this school year.
Last week I invited you to ask anything you wanted. Just for fun. No rules. The twist? I have to answer in 3 words or less. I’ll answer a bunch more, but here’s a start.
Q: Will you ever write another book?
A: Not anytime soon.
Q: What makes you happy at this moment?
A: Hands-down: family.
Q: What is something special you would do to brighten someone’s day?
A: Borrow their kids.
Q: How do you organize your kids’ school work? I throw a lot away but I still have more that I don’t know what to do with. Help.
A: Scan it all.
Q: What are the storage containers that you have shown in the picture on your home page?
A: The Container Store.
Q: If this scrapbooking/writing thing doesn’t “work out”, what other career path would you choose to pursue?
A: Marriage enhancement retreats.
Q: If/When you go to Starbucks or a coffee house, what do you get?
A: I don’t.
Q: Do you plan on creating a new design for Project Life for next year?
A: Absolutely.
Q: Apple, orange, or banana?
A: Apple.
Q: Do you have a nanny or full time babysitter? I don’t understand how you do everything you do without help. Please say yes just to make me feel better.
A: No. Little help.
Q: Favorite TV show?
A: Planet Earth.
Q: On a scale of 1-10 with ten being the most, how afraid were you to leave Creating Keepsakes?
A: Zero.
Q: Who would you like to meet that you have never met before?
A: David’s maternal grandmother.
Q: Do you plan to offer just the page protectors from project life as a separate purchase?
A: That’s the plan.
Q: Do you have other projects in the works besides the next Project Life that you will be putting out to the world?
A: A couple ideas.
Q: I know you’ve lived in several states – which one is/was your favorite?
A: Each unique experience.
Q: What is one food item/main dish that you would eat everyday for the rest of your life if you had to?
A: Kellogg’s Raisin Bran.
Q: How old are you?
A: 33.
Q: What do you use to clean your walls with?
A: Magic eraser.
Q: What was your major in college?
A: Family Science.
February’s theme for the kids’ scrapbooks: Classroom parties! Our specific focus – and the POTM (photo of the month) – was from the classroom’s Valentines party earlier in the month.
Here’s a completed layout:
Those of you who have been doing this project know that I keep it simple. I usually give the kids strips that either go across the top of the layout or on the sides. I’m usually throwing the layout components together at the last-minute so keeping is simple isn’t just my style. It’s also due to time constraints.
Anyway — decided to take a few extra minutes this time and do some free-hand-giant-scallop-cutting on the strips. Just take those scissors and cut a couple at a time. Scoop, scoop, scoop. Keep it irregular for a whimsical look.
Pink for girls. Red for boys. Our theme was Valentines, after all.
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Jonathan -- May god give you strength and courage in the coming months. Enjoy your family. Love you wife and hug your kids. Lean on Him. He can handle it. God Bless.
- Tricia Shelton
May you be surrounded by love, friendship and family in this difficult time.
- The Gourlay Family
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- anonymous
I wish you all love, peace, courage, and strength for the days ahead. I'll be praying. Be blessed!
- Sandra
You and your family are in our prayers. God Bless!
- Angie Murray
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Although I've never met Jonathan, I have been following Becky's articles, books, and blog for years—even met her once at CKU Orlando. Like so many that Becky has touched, I've always admired the love, unity, and values of your large and beautiful family. I wish you all love, peace, courage, and strength for the days ahead. I'll be praying. Be blessed!
- anonymous
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- Peggy Krantz
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- anonymous
My heart is filled with love and pain and gratitude for eternal families as I have read about the challenge your family faces. Please accept my donation as a small token to help ease the significant, and often devastating, monetary burdens that come with this challenge. Thank you for a fine example of strength during the darkest times we face in life - an example that gives courage to others struggling with trials in their lives.
- anonymous
To Jonathan and family - I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
- God bless all of you, Leslie Schmitt
"Praying for you and your family." 1 Peter 5:7
- Kristina Proffitt
I'm praying for you throughout each day and asking God to give each of you the strength, comfort, and peace to get through this enormous trial. May God bless all of you in ways you never could've imagined and may His mighty and healing hand be especially upon you Jonathan.
- Much love, Lisa in Florida
May you continue to find peace and comfort knowing you are surrounded by loving family and friends.
- anonymous
Dear Jonathan and family, Our heartfelt prayers are with you and your family. May you know in your hearts that there will always be someone, whether here or above, who will always be with each one of you.
- Maria
Jonathan, his family, friends, and coworkers are all in my prayers during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us- it's very inspiring to see Jonathan's strength through this battle.
- Kristen
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that small voice at the end of the day that says 'I will try again tomorrow' " - Mary Anne Radmacher - The last year has been really difficult for me, but this quote always seems to help. I hope it helps you and your family, as well. Don't forget, miracles really do happen. Hang in there and keep your chin up.
- Love and prayers from NM, Stephanie Taylor
To Jonathan, Tina and your entire family: I wish there were more that I could do to help you. Becky's books have been my favorites since I first read them. Because she shared family photos and stories, I feel like you are all old friends. Good luck and I am sending happy thoughts and sparkly wishes your way!
- Jacki Samolsky
Big hugs and lots of prayers of healing and peace to your whole family.